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The Top Knot: Compact, Modern, and Easier Than a Man Bun

A tight knot tied at the apex of the head — the top knot is quicker to achieve, requires less total length, and looks sharper with faded sides than its fuller man-bun cousin.

The top knot is exactly what it sounds like: the hair on the top of the head is gathered, pulled straight up, and twisted into a knot at the highest point of the skull. Unlike the man bun, which sits lower and tends to sprawl, the top knot is precise and upright. It has a long history — the Japanese chonmage worn by samurai and still worn by sumo wrestlers is a version of it, and Sikh men traditionally wear uncut hair tied in a joora at the crown — but its contemporary form is distinctly modern: a skin fade or undercut on the sides with 5–7 inches of length gathered up top.

At a glance

Best for
Round, square & oval faces; all hair types (coily hair ties into a puff)
Hair length needed
Minimum 4–5 in on top; sides faded or undercut
Maintenance
Medium (fade or undercut needs regular upkeep)
Barber visit
Every 2–4 weeks for faded sides
Styling time
2–3 min
Grow-out difficulty
Moderate — faded sides show regrowth sooner than the top

Top knot vs. man bun: real differences

People use both terms interchangeably, but they describe different shapes. A top knot is positioned at the vertex — the very highest point of the skull — and the knot is compact, tight, and sits upright. A man bun is positioned lower, typically at the back of the crown or even lower, and is larger and fuller. The top knot requires less length to pull off cleanly (4–5 inches vs. 6+ for a man bun) and looks sharper when paired with short faded sides. The man bun works with all-round long hair and tends to look more casual and relaxed.

The faded and undercut top knot

The most popular contemporary version combines a top knot with either a skin fade or a disconnected undercut on the sides and back. The sides are clipped down to skin or a #0.5–#1 (1.5–3 mm), creating a high-contrast line between the short sides and the long top section. This is fundamentally different from an all-round long-hair top knot: it is a barbershop cut, not just a styling choice. The fade needs refreshing every 2–3 weeks; the undercut can go slightly longer, around 3–4 weeks, before the disconnection starts to soften.

How to tie a top knot

  1. Gather only the top section of hair (if you have faded sides, only the long top section is available anyway) and pull it straight upward from the crown.
  2. Hold the gathered hair with one hand and position the elastic near the base of the gathered section, close to the scalp.
  3. Wrap the elastic around the base two full times to create a secure anchor.
  4. On the final wrap of the elastic, pull the hair only halfway through so it forms a loop rather than a ponytail. For a neater knot, twist the tail instead and coil it around the base.
  5. Tuck any loose ends under the elastic, or secure the coil with a second elastic or a couple of bobby pins if your hair is short or slippery.
  6. Apply a tiny amount of pomade or hair wax to smooth stray hairs and tighten the silhouette of the knot.

How to grow out a top knot

Hair grows about ½ inch (1.25 cm) a month on average, at the same rate on top and at the sides — the sides just look messy sooner because they start shorter. The fastest route is to leave the top completely alone and keep the sides tidy with a fade or undercut the whole way through:

  • From a short crop (about 2 in on top): roughly 5–6 months to reach 4½–5 in and a small knot.
  • Months 2–4: the awkward stage. The top flops forward — slick it back with a light cream or use a headband rather than trimming it.
  • The front hairline is the bottleneck: front hair has the furthest to travel to reach the crown, so it needs the most length. Expect short front pieces to escape until they reach 6 in or so.

Ask your barber to "dust" the ends every couple of months only if they're splitting — otherwise every trim on top sets you back.

How to ask your barber for a top knot cut

The cut is mostly about the sides — the top is left long enough to tie. Specify where the undercut or fade stops so there's enough hair left to gather.

Copy-paste script: "I wear my hair in a top knot, so please don't take any length off the top. Disconnected undercut on the sides and back with a #1, stopping about an inch below my parting line so the top can still be tied up. Clean the neckline and around the ears. No texturising on top — I want it all the same length for the knot."

Prefer a blended look? Swap the undercut for a mid skin fade. Our guide to asking your barber covers the rest of the vocabulary.

Barber tip: When asking for a top knot cut, be specific about the top length: "5 inches on top, skin fade on the sides up to about two inches above the ear, hard part optional." Barbers hear "top knot" and often assume different lengths — the number gives them precision.

Face shape guide for the top knot

The top knot's upward-pointing knot adds perceived height to the head. That helps round faces look longer and balances the width of a square jaw. Oval faces suit it easily. Oblong faces — already long — should keep the knot compact and avoid very tall or prominent tied shapes. Read the full face shape guide to confirm which approach works for your proportions. Men with a high or prominent forehead may want to leave a few strands loose at the front rather than sweeping everything back cleanly, which can over-expose the forehead.

Hair care for the top knot

Because the top knot concentrates all tension at one point on the crown, wearing it tight every day can cause traction alopecia — hair loss from repeated pulling, which can become permanent if it goes on for years. Keep it loose enough that it doesn't pull at the hairline, and rotate the exact tie position slightly forward or backward each day. Use only snag-free elastics — no rubber bands or thin sports hair ties that can cut into the shaft. Keep the top section conditioned; dry, brittle hair breaks more easily at the tie point. If you notice tenderness or early thinning at the tie position, take a break and wear the hair down for at least a few days per week. For a complete approach to scalp and hair health, see our men's hair care routine.

Frequently asked questions

What is the difference between a top knot and a man bun?
A top knot is tied at the very highest point of the head (the crown) and produces a compact, tight knot of hair. A man bun sits lower, at the back of the head, and is typically fuller and looser. Top knots can work with less total length (as little as 4 to 5 inches on top) and look more precise; man buns usually need 6 or more inches all round and read as more relaxed.
How long does hair need to be for a top knot?
You need a minimum of 4–5 inches (10–12 cm) of hair at the crown to tie a top knot that holds without pins. With 3 inches you can create a very small stub knot, but it will slip out without bobby pins. Ideal top knot length is 5–7 inches, which provides a secure knot with a clean silhouette.
Can a top knot have faded or undercut sides?
Yes — the top knot with faded or undercut sides is the most modern version of the style. The sides are taken to a skin fade or #0–#1 undercut, leaving only the top section long enough to tie up. This approach is more structured and requires more barbershop maintenance (every 2–4 weeks) but looks significantly cleaner and more intentional than a full all-round top knot.
What face shapes suit a top knot?
The top knot adds height to the head, which benefits round and square faces by elongating the face shape. Oval faces suit it well naturally. Oblong faces should keep the knot compact and low to avoid adding unwanted height. Heart-shaped faces benefit from the top knot drawing attention away from the chin. Men with a prominent forehead may want to leave some fringe down to balance the look.
How do I tie a top knot so it stays all day?
Gather only the hair at the top of the head and pull it vertically upward. Secure with a fabric-covered elastic, wrapping it two or three times. On the last wrap, pull the hair only halfway through to form a loop, or twist the tail and coil it around the base. Tuck the ends under and add a second elastic or a couple of bobby pins if your hair is short or slippery. A little pomade or wax on the gathered section reduces flyaways and adds grip.
Is a top knot appropriate for formal or professional settings?
A clean, tight top knot with well-maintained faded sides sits in the smart-casual category and is accepted in most modern offices. A loose, messy knot reads more casual. For formal occasions — interviews, weddings, black-tie events — a top knot is borderline; a well-secured bun is generally more appropriate than a very small stub knot, which can look unfinished.
Can a top knot cause hair loss?
It can if it is worn tight every day. Constant pulling at the same spot can cause traction alopecia, which starts as thinning at the hairline or around the tie point and can become permanent. Tie it loosely, change the position slightly day to day, use snag-free elastics, and wear your hair down some days.
How long does it take to grow hair long enough for a top knot?
From a short crop with about 2 inches on top, expect around 5 to 6 months. Hair grows roughly half an inch a month, and you need 4 to 5 inches on top for a small knot — more at the front hairline, which has the furthest to travel. Keep the sides faded while the top grows to skip most of the awkward stage.

Keep the knot sharp

The right trimmer handles the faded sides between barber visits — and a good snag-free elastic protects the hair you've grown.

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